Comments on: How to Ask Out More Girls http://www.successcoachingformen.com/2009/08/how-to-ask-out-more-girls/ Tue, 27 Apr 2010 15:32:59 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Andrew http://www.successcoachingformen.com/2009/08/how-to-ask-out-more-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-457 Andrew Wed, 14 Oct 2009 06:19:16 +0000 http://andrewparkes.me/?p=878#comment-457 Great advice - thanks, Tia. I wish more women would help men out with this kind of thing. Great advice – thanks, Tia. I wish more women would help men out with this kind of thing.

]]> By: Coach T.I.A http://www.successcoachingformen.com/2009/08/how-to-ask-out-more-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-456 Coach T.I.A Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:30:52 +0000 http://andrewparkes.me/?p=878#comment-456 Be open, don't take rejection personally (applies to every aspect of life, really). Even us women face rejection and when you think of it as "well he/she wasn't the one for me but I enjoyed getting to know them anyways cos I know my partner is around the corner" then you are respecting yourself and them AND valuing every interaction in life. Put yourself out there - men & women, as someone who deserves love and respect and always remember that in everything you do. Treat a new potential date as a person (as opposed to an object of desire!) and get curious about them. If you look at each person you approach as someone not that different from you, ie, looking for love and happiness just like you, it takes a bit of that fear away right? They aren't some mystic goddesses on a pedestal out to break your heart - deep inside, they are as vulnerable and scared as you are and longing to meet the right person. Genuine interest and sincerity is very appealing! Women really appreciate a man who is sexy, confident, a good listener and fun to be with. Tia aka @TiaSparkles Be open, don’t take rejection personally (applies to every aspect of life, really).

Even us women face rejection and when you think of it as “well he/she wasn’t the one for me but I enjoyed getting to know them anyways cos I know my partner is around the corner” then you are respecting yourself and them AND valuing every interaction in life.

Put yourself out there – men & women, as someone who deserves love and respect and always remember that in everything you do. Treat a new potential date as a person (as opposed to an object of desire!) and get curious about them. If you look at each person you approach as someone not that different from you, ie, looking for love and happiness just like you, it takes a bit of that fear away right? They aren’t some mystic goddesses on a pedestal out to break your heart – deep inside, they are as vulnerable and scared as you are and longing to meet the right person.

Genuine interest and sincerity is very appealing! Women really appreciate a man who is sexy, confident, a good listener and fun to be with. Tia aka @TiaSparkles

]]> By: Andrew http://www.successcoachingformen.com/2009/08/how-to-ask-out-more-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-455 Andrew Mon, 28 Sep 2009 15:11:00 +0000 http://andrewparkes.me/?p=878#comment-455 So true - thanks for checking out my Blog, Eliza. I appreciate you reading my stuff! :) So true – thanks for checking out my Blog, Eliza. I appreciate you reading my stuff! :)

]]> By: Eliza http://www.successcoachingformen.com/2009/08/how-to-ask-out-more-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-454 Eliza Mon, 28 Sep 2009 05:07:13 +0000 http://andrewparkes.me/?p=878#comment-454 I agree with Michelle....also doesn't hurt to have a little charm & charisma thrown in. I agree with Michelle….also doesn’t hurt to have a little charm & charisma thrown in.

]]> By: Andrew http://www.successcoachingformen.com/2009/08/how-to-ask-out-more-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-453 Andrew Fri, 25 Sep 2009 05:22:00 +0000 http://andrewparkes.me/?p=878#comment-453 You make a great point! I am so glad to have an amazing woman like you point this stuff out to guys. You make a great point! I am so glad to have an amazing woman like you point this stuff out to guys.

]]> By: Bernardette http://www.successcoachingformen.com/2009/08/how-to-ask-out-more-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-452 Bernardette Fri, 25 Sep 2009 02:16:21 +0000 http://andrewparkes.me/?p=878#comment-452 When considering cologne vs. non-cologne please remember that there are those of us in the world who are severely allergic to cologne. I personally prefer the nice, natural smell of clean laundry and clean skin. Cologne is off-putting and I'd like to get to know a man without sneezing all over him. But definitely kudos to the rest of the post :) When considering cologne vs. non-cologne please remember that there are those of us in the world who are severely allergic to cologne. I personally prefer the nice, natural smell of clean laundry and clean skin. Cologne is off-putting and I’d like to get to know a man without sneezing all over him.

But definitely kudos to the rest of the post :)

]]> By: Andrew http://www.successcoachingformen.com/2009/08/how-to-ask-out-more-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-451 Andrew Fri, 28 Aug 2009 05:28:06 +0000 http://andrewparkes.me/?p=878#comment-451 Great comment, Jen - cologne can make or break a man! :) Great comment, Jen – cologne can make or break a man! :)

]]> By: Jen http://www.successcoachingformen.com/2009/08/how-to-ask-out-more-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-450 Jen Fri, 28 Aug 2009 04:57:44 +0000 http://andrewparkes.me/?p=878#comment-450 I totally agree with Michelle. Confidence goes a long way. And great cologne... I don't know what it is about it but it gets my attention. (Don't put on too much though.) I totally agree with Michelle. Confidence goes a long way. And great cologne… I don’t know what it is about it but it gets my attention. (Don’t put on too much though.)

]]> By: Andrew http://www.successcoachingformen.com/2009/08/how-to-ask-out-more-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-449 Andrew Thu, 27 Aug 2009 19:43:39 +0000 http://andrewparkes.me/?p=878#comment-449 Yes - awesome! Let me to be the first to congratulate you on getting wet, my man! The water is warm out here! Yes – awesome! Let me to be the first to congratulate you on getting wet, my man! The water is warm out here!

]]> By: Josh http://www.successcoachingformen.com/2009/08/how-to-ask-out-more-girls/comment-page-1/#comment-448 Josh Thu, 27 Aug 2009 16:28:53 +0000 http://andrewparkes.me/?p=878#comment-448 Right on...time to jump back into the water again. Thanks Andrew. Right on…time to jump back into the water again. Thanks Andrew.

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