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		<title>The absolute best way to feel better about yourself when you are feeling down and out.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Oct 2010 14:56:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do something nice for someone else… anyone. Right away. Do it.]]></description>
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<p>Do something nice for someone else… anyone. Right away. Do it.</p>
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		<title>How I am Helping Haiti</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 17:14:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Like many of you, I am amazed, saddened, and heartbroken over the terrible earthquake that happened in Haiti last week. I have decided I would like to do something about it: First, is prayer. I often turn to God when I can&#8217;t understand something or feel overwhelmed by how much help is needed and how [...]]]></description>
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Like many of you, I am amazed, saddened, and heartbroken over the terrible earthquake that happened in Haiti last week. I have decided I would like to do something about it:</p>
<p>First, is prayer. I often turn to God when I can&#8217;t understand something or feel overwhelmed by how much help is needed and how limited I feel.</p>
<p>Second, I have 3 ideas to use my own gifts and abilities to raise money for relief (see below.) My goal is to raise $1,000.</p>
<p>I urge you to do your part to help the people of Haiti &#8211; staying updated on what is happening is not enough. Use your gifts to help other people.</p>
<p>Thanks,</p>
<p>Andrew</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>My 3 ways of helping:</strong></p>
<p><strong>FACEBOOK:</strong></p>
<p>I put this status update on my Facebook page yesterday:</p>
<blockquote style="text-align: left;">
<h3><em>&#8220;Following the lead of my friend Joanna, I will donate $1 to Haiti earthquake relief for everyone that &#8216;likes&#8217; this status update. Please do the same.&#8221;</em></h3>
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<p>Please &#8216;like&#8217; this update!</p>
<p><strong>COACHING: </strong></p>
<p>I normally charge $100 for a 45 minute coaching session. Until February 1st, I will donate <strong>50% of this amount to Haiti relief. </strong>If you have a bunch of questions to plow through about your personal life, business idea, or career goal, or you just want a level head to talk with about your fears and concerns, a laser coaching session is for you. We will jam through as many obstacles as we can in 45 minutes, and leave you with a clear sense of what to do next.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong> </strong>Buy your session today and I will get back to you as soon as possible to set-up a time to talk:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>45 minute laser coaching session with Andrew Parkes – $100</em></strong></p>
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<p><strong>E-BOOKS:</strong></p>
<p>My E-Books cost $13-$19 each.  Until February 1st, <strong>I will donate 50% of the proceeds from the sale of any of them to Haiti relief:</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.successcoachingformen.com/how-to-live-on-fire-e-book/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1693 alignnone" title="HOW TO BE ON FIRE E-BOOK" src="http://successcoachingformen.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/EbookCoverLarge-231x300.jpg" alt="HOW TO BE ON FIRE E-BOOK" width="120" height="150" /></a><a href="http://www.successcoachingformen.com/how-to-stop-wasting-your-time-and-your-life-e-book"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1688 alignnone" title="HOW TO STOP WASTING YOUR TIME (AND YOUR LIFE) E-BOOK" src="http://successcoachingformen.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/e-book3-231x300.jpg" alt="HOW TO STOP WASTING YOUR TIME (AND YOUR LIFE) E-BOOK" width="120" height="150" /></a><a href="http://www.successcoachingformen.com/how-to-turn-any-woman-into-your-biggest-fan-e-book"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1689 alignnone" title="HOW TO TURN ANY WOMAN INTO YOUR BIGGEST FAN E-BOOK" src="http://successcoachingformen.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/e-book2-231x300.jpg" alt="e-book2" width="120" height="150" /></a><a href="http://www.successcoachingformen.com/how-to-make-more-money-and-work-fewer-hours-in-a-job-you-actually-like-e-book"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1690 alignnone" title="HOW TO MAKE MORE MONEY AND WORK FEWER HOURS IN A JOB YOU ACTUALLY LIKE E-BOOK" src="http://successcoachingformen.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/ebook-1-231x300.jpg" alt="HOW TO MAKE MORE MONEY AND WORK FEWER HOURS IN A JOB YOU ACTUALLY LIKE E-BOOK" width="120" height="150" /></a><a href="http://www.successcoachingformen.com/how-to-make-6-figures-while-youre-still-young-e-book/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1689 alignnone" title="HOW TO MAKE 6 FIGURES WHILE YOU'RE STILL YOUNG E-BOOK" src="http://successcoachingformen.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Young6Figures_thumb.jpg" alt="" width="120" height="150" /></a><a href="http://www.successcoachingformen.com/why-youre-not-in-shape-and-what-to-do-about-it-e-book/"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1689 alignnone" title="WHY YOU'RE NOT IN SHAPE AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT E-BOOK" src="http://successcoachingformen.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/NotInShape_Thumb2.jpg" alt="" width="120" height="150" /></a></p>
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		<title>What Stops You From Helping Others?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2009 15:39:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know what it is for me&#8230; getting too caught up in my own little world: What am I going to eat today? When am I going to go to the gym today and what will I do? How can I reach my goals today? How can I complete items on my to-do list today? [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know what it is for me&#8230; getting too caught up in my own little world:<img class="alignright size-full wp-image-564" title="2389146243_5bd94963ea_m" src="http://andrewparkes.me/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/2389146243_5bd94963ea_m.jpg" alt="2389146243_5bd94963ea_m" width="240" height="161" /></p>
<ul>
<li>What am I going to eat today?</li>
<li>When am I going to go to the gym today and what will I do?</li>
<li>How can I reach my goals today?</li>
<li>How can I complete items on my to-do list today?</li>
</ul>
<p>See what’s missing here?</p>
<p><strong>YOU.</strong></p>
<p>Specifically, what is important to you and how can I help?</p>
<p>And not just the idea or feeling of helping without the willingness to actually help. No, the actual doing part, too.</p>
<p>I am working on this. I appreciate your patience.  In fact, in an hour from now, I am leaving my work/to-do-list/goals/gym time behind to help some friends move.  Are you proud of me??</p>
<p>Here’s a really simple thing you could do to help me:</p>
<p><strong>Tell every Young Professional Man you know about my new 1-on-1 Life Coaching website called Success Questions:</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.successquestions.ca" target="_blank"><strong>http://www.successquestions.ca</strong></a></p>
<p>Tomorrow, I will give you an <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">even more</span></strong> compelling reason to help me (other than the goodness of your little heart.)</p>
<p>And, while you’re doing this, let me know how I can help you (and give me a <strong>gentle slap</strong> when I get too caught up in my own world to follow through!)</p>
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		<title>Who Can You Get to Help?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:55:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my last YPM post, I talked about how to set Goals.  Today, we will talk about who you can ask to help you stay accountable for achieving them. Think of 3 potential contacts who can help you achieve your 1-year goal – how do you think they can help? Person: How they can help you: [...]]]></description>
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<p style="TEXT-ALIGN: left">In my last YPM post, I talked about how to set Goals.  Today, we will talk about who you can ask to help you stay accountable for achieving them.</p>
<p>Think of 3 potential contacts who can help you achieve your 1-year goal – how do you think they can help?</p>
<ul>
<li>Person:</li>
<li>How they can help you:</li>
<li>How you can help them:</li>
</ul>
<p>Ideally, do this exercise with your mutual support partners – they may be able to add to your list by making introductions. Or they themselves may be on this list! These may be people you know already, or they may be people you need to meet.</p>
<p>Commit to launching your outreach plan to these contacts within 30 days time.</p>
<p>Next Steps &#8211; try one of these options for enrolling others in helping you sustain your commitment:</p>
<ul>
<li>Join a YPM Group (more on this later this week)</li>
<li>Find an accountability buddy – Ask a colleague or a friend to sign on as your mutual accountability buddy. Check in with each other weekly to make sure you’ve each taken steps toward accomplishing your goals, and to assign next steps.</li>
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