Success Coaching for Men

Turn on your tv. Flip through 50 channels – 3 seconds per channel Turn off your tv. Walk away. Difficult? Of course it is. We see something we like and we want to see more. (Precisely the reason I got rid of my TV.)

I have fallen into this trap before – the idea that there’s an answer out there that’s hard to find but will unlock a happy life. What if… a. the answer is not out there (it’s in here) b. it’s not hard to find (just hard to accept) c. it’s not designed to unlock happiness [...]

I love learning from successful people. The danger is when that learning morphs into wanting to copy their success like it’s some kind of secret recipe or holy grail to find. There’s a fine line – learn and appreciate but don’t copy.

Fascinating how connected people can get to their stuff, even if it’s garbage. It’s painful in a way to see people torn between what’s best for them (get rid of the crap) and what that crap means to them. I feel like in a way, I would be great for a show called Anti-Hoarder because [...]

I usually have very little to say. I just can’t think of anything. Did great stuff happen? Yes. So, how come I can’t remember? I think it’s that I think other people don’t really care. Or I can’t thing of anything memorable. Or I don’t really want to share. I’m not sure. It’s just clear [...]

Wild thought: have you ever done a rigorous, comprehensive study on your sleeping pattern? I’m talking a deep look into the conditions, bed, length of time, atmosphere, environment, etc. that produces ideal, restful, rejuvenating sleep for you. I haven’t. I just think it’s a good idea.

It is a small device that allows me access to: books, blogs, e-mail, social media, maps, my running training logs, my documents, music, movies, tv shows. Essentially, it is the ultimate in one stop shopping. And it fits in my pocket. The lesson: if you can do anything that takes 2+ things and combines them [...]

Organization / Travel Time / Accessibility – wondering what these concepts have to do with time management? Organization: if I can’t find something (and have to spend minutes or hours looking for it), how much time is wasted? Instead, if I have a neat, tidy, and ‘everything in its place’ mentality to my office and [...]

When urgent demands or requests are made of you from others, what is your strategy to protect your most important priorities? If we are loosely committed to our priorities, other people’s urgency will win out. We won’t want to disappoint or upset people who appear to be relying on us. The other twist is that [...]

Think about the most important things you need to do today both at work and in your personal life. Now, are you HOPING these things will happen today barring emergencies or other urgent actions? Or, WILL they happen today? The answer is completely up to you.